I usually set myself goals at the start of the year and they cover all aspects of my life. But, after almost a year of lockdown AND crappy mental health, I've made a 21 for 2021 list, focussing on health, wealth and happiness. Join me for a three part series where I deep-dive into each item on the list.
Mental Health
Read 12 books
I used to read a lot as a child and in my teens and as the years have gone on and I've worked, studied and spent all my spare time at gigs or on nights out I've lost my passion for reading. I set this goal as 12 so it would equate to one a month, easy, yes? Actually not so easy - we're mid-February and I'm only just nearing the end of my first book! I've started dedicating at least 30 minutes before I go to sleep to reading rather than scrolling through Twitter or TikTok, sending my brain to sleep sensibly.
Declutter
I'm ashamed to admit that I have sooooo much stuff. I don't even use half of it so 2021 is the year to declutter. I've already started by purging all of my clothes, binning some, keeping some and selling others on Vinted. So, the bedroom is done, still to do is my office, makeup (urgh), bathrooms and the kitchen! I've always had a mental blocker from getting rid of things, even the smallest memory makes me want to keep hold of things although I know I'll feel so much better afterwards. Clear house, clear mind. CLUTTER BE GONE!
Journal
I started actively journalling in March 2019. I've always started diaries and it's never lasted longer than a month up until this date. I now have a diary where I write bullet points of things that happened in the day and then when I'm having some self-care time, I write this up in my journal, adding photos and cute stickers along the way. I've found journalling to really help with my mental health and also something that's cool to look back at as the years pass. Thanks to my pal Holly, at Journal with Dolly, for helping me find my creative side and a new found obsession with washi tape.
Physical Health
Lose 1 stone
Okay, so I've changed my mind about this one. I used to think that all that mattered was the number on the scales when reality, as long as I'm happy and healthy, the number shouldn't mean a thing. I've quit Slimming World after two and a half years and, linking back to decluttering, I've either sold or listed a ton of clothes that I kept from my teenage years that I was determined to skinny back into. I'm still going to exercise, tone up and keep fit but I'm not bothered about the change in numbers.
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